{"id":90195,"date":"2020-01-20T10:45:52","date_gmt":"2020-01-20T10:45:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/logon.media\/logon_article\/riscul-si-aventura-intimitatii\/"},"modified":"2020-01-20T10:45:52","modified_gmt":"2020-01-20T10:45:52","slug":"riscul-si-aventura-intimitatii","status":"publish","type":"logon_article","link":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/logon_article\/riscul-si-aventura-intimitatii\/","title":{"rendered":"Riscul \u0219i aventura intimit\u0103\u021bii"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>La 28 de ani m-am r\u0103t\u0103cit de unul singur prin peisajul montan al insulei grece\u0219ti, Samos. Aerul limpede, parfumul florilor s\u0103lbatice, lini\u0219tea infinit\u0103 a c\u0103ilor montane au creat \u00een mine o nea\u0219teptat\u0103 deschidere. Dintr-o dat\u0103 era acolo &#8230; marea Fiin\u021b\u0103 m\u0103 cople\u0219ea &#8230; Un indiciu lini\u0219tit \u0219i tandru de noi percep\u021bii \u0219i sentimente.<\/p>\n<p>Dup\u0103 mul\u021bi ani de lupt\u0103, lupt\u0103, disperare \u0219i dezorientare simt \u00een acest moment:<\/p>\n<p><em>Totul \u00een via\u021ba mea se va schimba \u0219i va fi diferit!<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Sunt chemat s\u0103 iau parte la o imens\u0103 \u0219i puternic\u0103 aventur\u0103!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Iar aceast\u0103 aventur\u0103 are ceva de-a face cu intimitatea. (<em>intimus<\/em> \u00een latin\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u201einterior\u201d).<\/p>\n<p>Urc un munte de unde c\u00e2\u0219tig o priveli\u0219te larg\u0103&nbsp; , o imagine limpede asupra dealurilor verzi \u0219i a oceanului. Dar nu sunt de fapt \u00een exterior, ci mai degrab\u0103, \u201e\u00een interior\u201d &#8211; experimentez cea mai profund\u0103 familiaritate \u0219i intimitate cu \u00eens\u0103\u0219i Esen\u021ba, cu Fiin\u021ba mea. Timp de dou\u0103 zile stau pe v\u00e2rf de munte \u0219i m\u0103 g\u00e2ndesc, cum ar trebui s\u0103 decurg\u0103, acum, lucrurile \u00een via\u021ba mea.<\/p>\n<p>M\u0103 voi retrage \u00een mine timp de c\u00e2\u021biva ani \u00eentr-una dintre multele m\u0103n\u0103stiri de pe insula Samos, pentru a exersa medita\u021bia \u0219i autoabsorb\u021bia, cufundat \u00een izolare? Sau sarcina mea este acas\u0103 \u201e\u00een mijlocul vie\u021bii\u201d, \u00een implicarea mea \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi plin\u0103 de eforturi \u0219i rela\u021bii, copii, serviciu \u0219i gospod\u0103rie?<\/p>\n<p>Stau \u0219i cump\u0103nesc: dureaz\u0103 dou\u0103 zile, p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd ajung la o concluzie: Da, m\u0103 voi conduce acas\u0103, \u00eemi voi asuma responsabilitatea. \u0218i \u00een cazul meu aceasta va \u00eensemna: m\u0103 voi c\u0103s\u0103tori, voi \u00eentemeia o familie &#8230; Aventura intimit\u0103\u021bii \u00ee\u0219i poate parcurge cursul.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Care este esen\u021ba unui parteneriat? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00cen ceremonia hindus\u0103 a nun\u021bii&nbsp; exist\u0103 o component\u0103 central\u0103, <em>\u201eSaptapadi\u201d<\/em>. So\u021bia \u0219i so\u021bul \u00eenconjoar\u0103 inelul de foc de \u0219apte ori.<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen viziunea de ast\u0103zi &#8211; 35 de ani de c\u0103s\u0103torie mai t\u00e2rziu &#8211; consider c\u0103 acest ritual este un simbol minunat. \u00cen toate detaliile de aici sunt atrase gesturile a ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 un parteneriat \u00een ad\u00e2ncurile sale:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ca femeie \u0219i ca b\u0103rbat, ne rotim \u00een jurul focului fiin\u021bei noastre cele mai interioare .<\/li>\n<li>\u00cen elementul nostru central de foc suntem uni\u021bi&nbsp; &#8211; dac\u0103 totul este \u00een ordine &#8211; \u00een modul cel mai intim, de\u0219i nu avem voie s\u0103 ne apropiem prea mult de foc.<\/li>\n<li>Nu ar trebui s\u0103 st\u0103m privind t\u0103cu\u021bi, ar trebui s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem permanent \u00een mi\u0219care. \u00cen atmosfera focului central ne putem metamorfoza cu ajutorul celuilalt.<\/li>\n<li>Prin \u201e\u00eenconjurarea de \u0219apte ori a focului\u201d&nbsp; apare o energie mare, creatoare.<\/li>\n<li>\u00cen acela\u0219i timp, p\u0103r\u021bile noastre \u00eentunecate, subprodusele \u0219i handicapurile noastre de zgur\u0103, grosol\u0103nia noastr\u0103 nefinisat\u0103 \u0219i nelustruit\u0103 vor fi \u00eentotdeauna luminate mai intens \u0219i \u00een detaliu. Iar acesta este procesul cel mai provocator.<\/li>\n<li>Este nevoie de timp (\u0219apte etape de dezvoltare).<\/li>\n<li>Este nevoie de o aten\u021bie deosebit\u0103 acordat\u0103 unul celuilalt \u0219i o stabilitate interioar\u0103 din ce \u00een ce mai matur\u0103, pentru a v\u0103 recunoa\u0219te pe voi \u00een\u0219iv\u0103 \u0219i pe cel\u0103lalt, pentru a lucra cu \u201econsacratul\u201d \u0219i pentru a-l&nbsp; transmuta cu folos.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Privind \u00een urm\u0103, trebuie s\u0103 recunosc c\u0103 nu aveam deloc idee&nbsp; de profunzimea unui parteneriat. Am alunecat mai mult sau mai pu\u021bin nepreg\u0103tit \u00een aceast\u0103 aventur\u0103. Deja \u00een faza de a m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gosti, mi-a fost greu s\u0103 spun \u0219i s\u0103 simt un \u201eda\u201d necondi\u021bionat c\u0103tre \u0219i pentru cel\u0103lalt. Acest sentiment senzual de a fi atras de cel\u0103lalt nu este \u00eenc\u0103 o afirmare a Fiin\u021bei sale interioare. O\/\u00cel pot accepta \u0219i aprecia pe cel\u0103lalt\/\u0103 \u00een unicitatea ei\/lui imuabil\u0103?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Nu, n-a\u0219 putea s\u0103 o fac<\/em>. Nu puteam, pentru c\u0103&nbsp; nu \u00eenv\u0103\u021basem \u00eenc\u0103&nbsp; nici m\u0103car o singur\u0103 dat\u0103 s\u0103 m\u0103 accept \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 plac&nbsp; pe mine \u00een unicitatea mea imuabil\u0103. Cu toate acestea, m-am l\u0103sat s\u0103 cad \u00een rela\u021bie. Am permis apropierea, am c\u0103utat congruen\u021ba, dar o adev\u0103rat\u0103 \u201eintimitate\u201d din ea nu a ap\u0103rut.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ce se \u00een\u021belege prin intimitate?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Abia mult mai t\u00e2rziu am aflat c\u0103 exist\u0103 o diferen\u021b\u0103 mare \u00eentre \u201eapropiere\u201d \u0219i \u201eintimitate\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201eApropiere\u201d \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103-i permit\u0103 celuilalt s\u0103 se apropie de mine \u0219i s\u0103 m\u0103 cunoasc\u0103. Acest lucru poate fi \u00een apropierea fizic\u0103 sau \u00een apropierea emo\u021bional\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Prin \u201eintimitate\u201d se \u00een\u021belege, pe de alt\u0103 parte, \u201efaptul c\u0103 unul se \u00een\u021belege pe sine \u0219i se deschide \u00een prezen\u021ba celuilalt\u201d. Intimitatea \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 prin ceea ce cineva spune sau face, unul scoate la iveal\u0103 sentimentele \u0219i g\u00e2ndurile sale personale, cele mai interioare, \u0219i prin aceasta se experimenteaz\u0103 pe sine prin aceast\u0103 predare de sine, prin aceast\u0103 divulgare de sine. &#8221; [1]<\/p>\n<p>Putem filosofa ani de zile despre aceast\u0103 interrela\u021bie \u00eentre Femeie \u0219i B\u0103rbat, putem experimenta incompletitudinea \u0219i imperfec\u021biunea noastr\u0103 existen\u021bial\u0103 prin dureroase procese \u0219i observ\u0103m c\u0103 nici cel mai iubit partener al nostru nu poate dep\u0103\u0219i aceast\u0103 \u201edeficien\u021b\u0103 sufleteasc\u0103\u201d. \u00cen consecin\u021b\u0103, ne putem \u021bine ocupa\u021bi de \u00eenalta ideea spiritual\u0103 cum c\u0103 \u00een noi &#8211; fiecare femeie \u0219i fiecare b\u0103rbat &#8211; exist\u0103 un \u201eSirit-Copil\u201d, o crea\u021bie complet nou\u0103 care dore\u0219te s\u0103 evolueze, atunci c\u00e2nd ne pred\u0103m complet Celuilalt din&nbsp; noi, Sc\u00e2nteii divine. Aceasta este o revela\u021bie foarte important\u0103 \u00een \u0219i \u00een afara Luminii. Dar, cu aceast\u0103 perspectiv\u0103 plin\u0103 de lumin\u0103, trebuie, \u00een final, s\u0103 ne aventur\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 ne confrunt\u0103m cu pericolele ad\u00e2ncurilor \u00eentunecate din via\u021ba noastr\u0103 de zi cu zi. Exist\u0103 multe de descoperit acolo, multe de scos la lumin\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201eCu fiecare v\u00e2rf pe care \u00eel cucerim, trebuie s\u0103 ne plec\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 readucem puterea \u0219i iluminarea Lui \u00een mi\u0219c\u0103rile noastre muritoare.\u201d<\/em> (Sri Aurobindo)<\/p>\n<p>Sunt preg\u0103tit pentru realizarea&nbsp; de sine, predarea sincer\u0103 de sine, chiar \u0219i \u00een prezen\u021ba unei alte persoane?&nbsp;Interschimbarea acesteia, unde g\u0103sim consens, e pl\u0103cut\u0103. Mai ales la \u00eenceputul unei rela\u021bii, ne valid\u0103m unul prin altul din nou, din nou, cu p\u0103rerile noastre \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219ite. Aceasta se nume\u0219te \u201eintimitate&nbsp; extrinsec confirmat\u0103\u201d. Prin aceasta m\u0103 simt \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103 cu partenerul meu, m\u0103 pot exprima deschis, f\u0103r\u0103 team\u0103. Dar aceast\u0103 <em>\u201eascundere sub acelea\u0219i coper\u021bi\u201d,<\/em> oferindu-ne sentimentului de bine prin sentimente \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219ite, are, de regul\u0103, o perioad\u0103 scurt\u0103 de valabilitate.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201eO echip\u0103 se verific\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd nu se afl\u0103 \u00een ape lini\u0219tite.\u201d<\/em> (Tobias Ruland)<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201eAdev\u0103rul \u00eencepe ca doi pu\u0219i al\u0103turi.\u201d<\/em> (Lukas Michael Moeller)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Cheia pentru intimitatea continu\u0103 se afl\u0103, pe de alt\u0103 parte, \u00een faptul c\u0103 eu \u0219i partenerul meu suferim \u0219i exers\u0103m momente de \u201eintimitate afirmat\u0103 de sine\u201d. Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 aceasta mai exact?<\/p>\n<p>Vreau s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eencred \u00een cel\u0103lalt. Vreau s\u0103 dezv\u0103lui sau s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219esc ceva neclar sau chiar jenant cu partenerul meu. Poate fi \u0219i faptul c\u0103 ceva ce mi-a f\u0103cut partenerul sau a spus, m-a speriat sau m-a \u00eennebunit. \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd, este foarte important s\u0103 \u00eencep discu\u021bia cu partenerul meu \u00eentr-o manier\u0103 calm\u0103 \u0219i nu cu repro\u0219uri.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00cemi asum un risc. Poate partenerul meu s\u0103 navigheze \u00een jurul \u201estresului\u201d eliberat prin dezgolirea g\u00e2ndurilor mele cele mai secrete?&nbsp; Are un anumit nivel de statornicie \u0219i de potolire de sine?<\/p>\n<p>Pentru a m\u0103 ajuta s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleg: partenerul meu nu trebuie s\u0103 oglindeasc\u0103 sau s\u0103&nbsp; considere bun, ceea ce am dezv\u0103luit. El doar ascult\u0103 deschis pozi\u021biile, perspectivele mele \u0219i nu m\u0103 pedepse\u0219te pentru ceea ce am f\u0103cut public, de exemplu, prin \u201ea fi enervat\u201d, \u201ea cere justificare\u201d, \u201ea fugi\u201d, \u201ea m\u0103 \u00eendep\u0103rta\u201d, \u201e\u00eenghe\u021b\u00e2nd\u201d. Acestea sunt cele mai frecvente reac\u021bii negative. \u00cen rela\u021biile de lung\u0103 durat\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 adesea, c\u0103 un partener care a fost \u00eendep\u0103rtat datorit\u0103 unui anumit subiect dintr-o disput\u0103 de demult, s\u0103&nbsp; nu mai aduc\u0103 \u00een discu\u021bie acest subiect r\u0103mas \u00een carapacea \u021bestoasei lor, \u00eenchiz\u00e2ndu-l.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Avem \u00eencredere \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Avem \u00eencredere \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine pentru a descoperi \u0219i a vorbi despre umbrele din noi, \u00eenc\u0103 nel\u0103murite, posibil jenante, eventual nelini\u0219titoare, prin \u201e\u00eenconjurarea focului \u00eempreun\u0103\u201d? C\u00e2nd ne dorim cu adev\u0103rat s\u0103 fim acolo pentru partenerul nostru, ca tovar\u0103\u0219 de suflet, atunci le oferim acest spa\u021biu de \u00eencredere, intim. \u00cei ascult\u0103m f\u0103r\u0103 judecat\u0103 sau prejudec\u0103\u021bi.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Este un schimb care necesit\u0103 o mare cantitate de sensibilitate \u0219i aten\u021bie. Trebuie s\u0103 fiu con\u0219tient, s\u0103-mi \u0219tiu sl\u0103biciunile, trucurile \u0219i cursele mele ce pot s\u0103ri brusc din subcon\u0219tientul meu ca ni\u0219te piedici \u0219i bariere. \u0218tiu c\u0103 nu ar trebui s\u0103 p\u0103\u0219esc \u00eentotdeauna \u00een aceste capcane. \u0218i totu\u0219i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 din nou \u0219i din nou &#8230;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen practicarea reciproc\u0103 a acestei \u201eintimit\u0103\u021bi lini\u0219titoare de sine\u201d (am \u00eencredere \u00een mine s\u0103-mi deschid g\u00e2ndurile secrete f\u0103r\u0103 securitatea reasigur\u0103rii partenerului meu), m\u0103 cunosc foarte intens at\u00e2t&nbsp; pe mine c\u00e2t&nbsp; \u0219i pe cel\u0103lalt.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Da, \u00een timp, va deveni posibil s\u0103 desen\u0103m ceva ca o \u201efoaie de parcurs\u201d a rela\u021biei. Pot vedea \u0219i recunoa\u0219te pe aceast\u0103 hart\u0103 mun\u021bii mei, v\u0103ile \u0219i mla\u0219tinile mele. V\u00e2rfurile&nbsp; \u0219i abisurile mele &#8211; precum \u0219i pe cele ale partenerului meu.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>La acestea apar\u021bin \u0219i&nbsp; a\u0219a-zi\u0219ii mei \u201ecopii interiori\u201d, \u201ezgura\u201d mea nep\u0103truns\u0103 \u0219i nepoluat\u0103, nerezolvatele mele constela\u021bii de conflicte din aceast\u0103 via\u021b\u0103 \u0219i ale vie\u021bilor anterioare ale predecesorilor microcosmosului meu [2]&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Cu to\u021bii cunoa\u0219tem formele de exprimare ale acestor \u201ecopii interiori\u201d. Ele sunt diferitele m\u0103\u0219ti ale comportamentului nostru egocentric. Sunt descrise \u00een \u201ePurgatorul\u201d&nbsp; Divinei Comedii&nbsp; a lui Dante:<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; repede s\u0103 fii insultat &#8230; s\u0103 te enervezi &#8230;. ner\u0103bd\u0103tor &#8230; fl\u0103m\u00e2nd \u0219i dependent de recunoa\u0219tere &#8230; dorind mereu s\u0103 aib\u0103 ultimul cuv\u00e2nt &#8230; trebuie s\u0103 fii corect &#8230; fugind c\u00e2nd lucrurile ajung critice &#8230; c\u0103z\u00e2nd \u00eentr-o pr\u0103pastie lipsit\u0103 de fund &#8230; ac\u021bion\u00e2nd ca un clovn de clas\u0103 &#8230; fiind invidios &#8230; fl\u0103m\u00e2nd de apreciere &#8230; fiind prea ambi\u021bios \u0219i agitat &#8230;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Apoi, dintr-o dat\u0103 \u0219i pe nea\u0219teptate, ace\u0219ti \u201ecopii interiori nelini\u0219ti\u021bi\u201d ies din subcon\u0219tientul meu &#8230; cer s\u0103 fie auzi\u021bi, s\u0103 fie observa\u021bi, dar s\u0103 nu fie \u201epedepsi\u021bi\u201d sau \u201e\u00eempin\u0219i\u201d.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00cei pot angaja \u00eentr-un \u201edialog intim\u201d?<\/li>\n<li>Pot s\u0103-mi asum responsabilitatea <em>din lini\u0219tea leg\u0103turii suflete\u0219ti<\/em>, s\u0103 le dau un r\u0103spuns lini\u0219titor, f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eei las s\u0103 m\u0103 t\u0103r\u0103g\u0103neze emo\u021bional? (\u00cen <em>Divina Comedie<\/em> a lui Dante, el l-a avut pe Virgil ca un tovar\u0103\u0219 ce \u00eel calma, neutru.)<\/li>\n<li>Putem, \u00een parteneriat, s\u0103 devenim tovar\u0103\u0219i calmi unii pentru al\u021bii, pas cu pas, de multe ori prin \u201e\u00eenconjurarea focului\u201d, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 putem dezvolta o maturitate care s\u0103 ne permit\u0103, f\u0103r\u0103 stres, s\u0103 ne a\u0219ez\u0103m \u201ep\u0103r\u021bile \u00eentunecate\u201d \u00een lumin\u0103?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Nu noi suntem cei care elimin\u0103m aceste umbre p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, ci mai degrab\u0103<em>, Focul interior<\/em>. \u00cen aceast\u0103 experien\u021b\u0103 a luminii, \u00eentunericul \u00eentreg poate fi transformat.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00cen final, depinde de \u00eenv\u0103\u021barea mea de a sim\u021bi durerea deocamdat\u0103 imperfectului, defectuosului.&nbsp;\u00cen interiorul meu se poate dezvolta noua direc\u021bie ce d\u0103 un reper sim\u021burilor, astfel \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 resimt \u0219i \u00een mine ca o arsur\u0103, tot r\u0103ul pe care l-am f\u0103cut altora, asemenea unui foc mistuitor. \u00cen acela\u0219i timp, totu\u0219i, de asemenea, ca un flux de eliberare, pe care nu \u00eel pot re\u021bine, \u00een care toate \u00eendoielile \u0219i incertitudinea mea devin fluide \u0219i pot fi transmutate &#8230;&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd, ad\u00e2nc \u00een fiin\u021ba mea, simt aceast\u0103 ardere interioar\u0103, c\u00e2nd lacrimile celei mai profunde empatii cu mine \u00eensumi dar \u0219i cu ceilal\u021bi au voie s\u0103 curg\u0103 din mine, atunci stau \u00een momentul adev\u0103ratei experien\u021be cu \u201eAventura intimit\u0103\u021bii\u201d.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201eDisperarea este rezultatul fiec\u0103rei \u00eencerc\u0103ri serioase de a \u00een\u021belege \u0219i de a revendica via\u021ba uman\u0103. Disperarea este rezultatul oric\u0103rei \u00eencerc\u0103ri serioase de a trece prin via\u021b\u0103 cu virtute, dreptate \u0219i \u00een\u021belegere \u0219i pentru a-\u0219i \u00eendeplini cerin\u021bele. Copiii tr\u0103iesc pe-o parte a dezn\u0103dejdii, dar \u0219i a trezirii, pe de cealalt\u0103&nbsp;parte.\u201d<\/em> (Hermann Hesse, <em>C\u0103l\u0103toria spre est<\/em>)&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref1\" name=\"_ftn1\" title=\"\">[1]<\/a>&nbsp; Tobias Ruland, Die Psychologie der Intimit\u00e4t (<em>Psihologia intimit\u0103\u021bii<\/em>), p. 109, Stuttgart 2016<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"#_ftnref2\" name=\"_ftn2\" title=\"\">[2]<\/a> &nbsp;\u201eMicrocosmosul\u201d indic\u0103 fiin\u021ba etern\u0103 care trece din \u00eencarnare \u00een \u00eencarnare, purt\u00e2nd experien\u021bele multor vie\u021bi. \u00cen centrul s\u0103u se afl\u0103 sc\u00e2nteia \u201eadev\u0103ratului eu\u201d al unei fiin\u021be umane.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":920,"featured_media":7727,"template":"","meta":{"_acf_changed":false},"tags":[],"category_":[110109],"tags_english_":[],"class_list":["post-90195","logon_article","type-logon_article","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category_-spiritsoul-ro"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/logon_article\/90195","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/logon_article"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/logon_article"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/920"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7727"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=90195"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=90195"},{"taxonomy":"category_","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/category_?post=90195"},{"taxonomy":"tags_english_","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/logon.media\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags_english_?post=90195"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}